Love is in the Air...

प्रकाशित: 02.05.2019

Love…

Love is a fundamental state. It arises with an experience. Love is the deepest dimension of being that is unconditional. People that say: “im waiting for that one special person”, will never find love. People suffer unnecessarily, because they believe in some kind of special love for that one special person. Love is not something you FIND. Love is something you PRACTICE and that will arise. If you couple up with a person, thats one expression of love. But thats not all there is. We are in constant relationships, where each expression just has its own dynamic.

We should not leave our souls in our heart, looking for the perfect moment. We shouldn’t wait for the puzzle to be complete before starting to Love. Always love! Because whatever you want more off in life, Give!

But be open for people that might dislike you… Dislike is just an opinion. So don’t try to BE loved by everyone.

To be loving means to love people, but also to always be able to be by yourself and love. There is a big difference between being alone and being lonely. People tend to confuse this a lot… Being able to love yourself is the biggest gift we can have. It shows up as gratefulness, appreciation, kindness, happiness and understanding our ‘meaning of existence’. Self love is not only about loving yourself but about holding yourself up. Finding the fire within you. The SELF is LOVE. Without self awareness there is no love.

“Relative field of reality plays stupid sometimes, but luckily our souls are not.”

But not to be one sided… of course there are also moments of anger. But remember that anger is just a cover for hurt. We are simply looking for someone to take responsibility for it. And as long as we stay attached to our own weaknesses, we remain angry. Anger has a lot of energy, that turns into fire within us. Don’t try to suppress it, as this will make you a passive aggressive person. Rather learn to take radical responsibility for your healing and focus on using the charge of that energy for your own growth. Anger is an unconscious state. So our goal should be to bring it into our awareness, so we can act from a higher conciousnous state, in an opposite manner.

“Only a Greater person can forgive and love. And the fundamental requirement of greatness is the capacity to love unconditionally.”

Compassion is the ultimate state. It arises when we stop trying to fix things or look for something. Its when we are able to be present in the NOW, in our ‘state of being’. Because all states of lack are simply manufactured. “Lack” is simply a pointer to areas of growth in our consciousness. So start watching yourself, observe and correct yourself, by shifting your energy to interrupt these patterns. The way you talk to yourself, is the most important conversations you’ll ever have. Our primary Mission in life should be to evolve by getting to know ourselves. Once this happens, everything will get better. You’ll thrive in every aspect of life. Everything will happen as you need it to be.

“You are the path! Stop looking for something else!”

Trust! Trust in yourself and trust in others. Without trust there in no love. Without trust we will be dominated by our fears and ego. Trust is a fundamental element of being. In order to experience trust, we need to be grateful. A grateful heart is a loving heart that can trust. Learn to open up your heart, which means to be an integrated being, that is present and strong. Stop trying to protect yourself, as this is what results in anxiety.

“The Universe is a self validating system. Whatever you want it to be, it will be! Believe in something strongly and you’ll be right. Because no one can ever prove you wrong!”

Love is in the air, la la lala la la :)

उत्तर (2)

Max
Well said, beautifully written. I believe that there are many different types of love. The love of a mother, the one of a friend, the love of a lover, the love of and for an animals... Language is a barrier as there aren’t words to describe. Trust & Love can exist without each other. They aren’t mutually exclusive. Believing in good or something good is enough for love to be given. “I can trust someone to disappoint me” This trust would invoke the opposite of love. Yet regardless of all the disappointment a mothers love can bear it... belief is key. Self love is the key to give love. Any love without expectation is true. Altruism is a love hardly achieved by humans. As it takes dedication, sacrifice and belief. What would you sacrifice in what you believe? Love has a complexity hardly understood by the mind but it is felt in all humanity.

Max
P.s. Which part of India did you like most? :)